seed: letting go
Letting go is a healing experience, sometimes to truly let go we need to explain our reasons, not justify, just explain…there’s nothing to defend.
Make sure you leave a situation like a relationship that falls apart being true to yourself, sometimes to do that you have to set them free. Part of that is being able to explain your side of it, without anger or vengeance. Those feelings will detonate and will never help your cause.
You may never be able, may never get the chance to explain it to them. You need to do it for yourself. explain it to yourself. Writing it down moves it away from your spirit and emotions, then you become able to let it go, not always right away but in time when you accept the explanation, you will finally let go.
The seed is the moment you stop defending yourself and accept it.